20 weeks of love

tuesday marked 20 weeks and 17lbs 1 oz for asher. he has such a sweet little personality and is totally content to just sit and watch us all run around, though i usually am holding him(for his own safety). he is truly a third born, being dragged to the park, swimming lessons and sometimes the occasional date night(stew doesn't consider it a date night if there is a chid in tow, but sometimes that's how it works). the third just feels easier in life. with the addition of each child we spend less time focusing on the little things that seemed to once be so worrisome and more time on the things that we have chosen to make a priority. i love the craziness in our home! i sure hope we still get to have that fourth, be it a boy or GIRL;)